Nearly 23 percent of people 65 years and older are either alone or are at risk of becoming alone. They have no spouse, no children, and no relatives nearby. This is the sad reality that many seniors face. “Elder orphan” is the term that gerontologists use to describe seniors in these circumstances. We live in a generation of elder orphans. The number of elder orphans is rising as the baby boomer population ages. This isolation leaves them fearful because they have nobody to turn to as they age. Especially when a senior begins to have diminished physical or mental capacity, this becomes a serious issue that needs to be dealt with.
Next Avenue describes the serious and growing problem of elder orphans. People in the latest generation of seniors have far fewer children than previous generations. This leaves fewer younger people to care for the elderly. Furthermore, the decline in marriage, reduced number of children, and increase in family mobility has proven to be detrimental to seniors. These factors, combined with the average life span being longer than ever before often leaves vulnerable seniors with nowhere to turn.
Although this probably sounds quite discouraging, there are ways to help your situation. You may be isolated without family, a spouse, or children, but there are things to consider that can improve your life as you age. Residing in retirement homes or assisted livings not only gives you physical help, but also provides you with support and socialization. In addition, finding hobbies and activities you enjoy doing with other people is helpful. If you have a caregiver helping you in your home, this is a great support as well. Even taking a walk with another person can be extremely helpful in combating the isolation that elder orphans experience.
Much of the aging population is a generation of elder orphans. Yet this does not ultimately mean living a life of isolation and loneliness. Even if you don’t have family nearby, your friends, neighbors and even caregivers can be a great source of support and companionship. Knowing who and where to turn to as you age is extremely important. Arizona Elder Care can offer support and resources to help you through the aging process. It may take some consideration and planning, but there is always someone or something you can turn to in times of need.
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